Father..Beginner of life

Who is a father for you

A father plays an important role in every child's life that cannot be filled by others. This role can have a large impact on a child and help  shape him or her into person they become.
A person who is unaware of all the life tantrums just amazingly transforms a lot after having a title 'father'. Yes, a father is the one who just begins or starts us...hey guys..this is not a bad tweet for all the mommies out there. Please try to understand my phrase in a positive way.

Fathers, like mothers, are pillars in the development of a child’s emotional well-being. Children look to their fathers to lay down the rules and enforce them. They also look to their fathers to provide a feeling of security, both physical and emotional. Children want to make their fathers proud, and an involved father promotes inner growth and strength. Studies have shown that when fathers are affectionate and supportive, it greatly affects a child’s cognitive and social development. It also instills an overall sense of well-being and self confidence.

If men and women are to equally share childcare responsibilities, men need to do more of it. To be more precise, men need to do an additional 50 minutes each day while women should do 50 minutes less. This is the simple conclusion of the latest State of the World's Fathers Report, published to coincide with Father's Day this Sunday. The State of the World's Fathers Report 2019. It proposes changes that would enable men to increase the amount of unpaid childcare they do each day. 

 Every girl loves her dad, as we all hear all the time that he is the only Man who is not meant to hurt her. Luckily I am blessed and got all the love from three persons in my life who holds a tag of fatherhood. My own dad, who taught me many things mainly to remain patient in all situations. My lovely husband who always teach me more and more ... My dad in law who I admire the most and will always be a person to miss in my whole life...

Have I told you that I have the best dad in the whole world. I see my father as the first man who held my hand to this beautiful world. I still remember the day I got my first beat from him with a green stick for not trimming my nails. The pain was unbearable that I always enjoy that pain moment Even now which is a sweer memory. I got a dad who never advised or shouted at me for any matter rather taught me everything in his actions. There's so much I want to tell you about him but for today I don't want to enlarge my whole blog.

The next father is my ever lovable husband who is a father to my own son. Taught me to perform any work in a neat and keen way as you all know I am a big lazy bug. Even he was my tutor to prepare a cup of tea. He is the best dad to my son. Mostly very responsible in all the matters including caring, sharing and even a potty training to my kid. I am sure that my husband had changed a lot after his birth.
One more person in my life played an important role. My dad in law who taught many things which
 i had no clue at all... he taught me the importance of dressing well even for a small event.and always encouraged me to be smart and bold in all the places.I have learned a lot of things that I am not able to describe here.

Fathers and Their Daughters

Young girls depend on their fathers for security and emotional support. A father shows his daughter what a good relationship with a man is like. If a father is loving and gentle, his daughter will look for those qualities in men when she’s old enough to begin dating. If a father is strong and violent, she will relate closely to men of the same character.

Fathers and Their Sons

Unlike girls, who model their relationships with others based on their father’s character, boys model themselves after their father’s character. Boys will seek approval from their fathers from a very young age. As human beings, we grow up by imitating the behavior of those around us; that’s how we learn to function in the world. If a father is caring and treats people with respect, the young boy will grow up much the same. When a father is absent, young boys look to other male figures to set the “rules” for how to behave and survive in the world.

So today, don’t forget to tell your dad you love him, and thanks for being there!

WHAT IS GOING WRONG? WHY AREN’T MEN MORE INVOLVED IN FAMILY LIFE AND CARING?

It’s long been recognised that the key to getting men heavily involved with their families is to do so from the very earliest days. This, however, simply isn’t happening in many countries. According to the State of the World’s Fathers Report, only 48% of countries offer paid paternity leave following the birth of a child, and this can be as little as a few days. If a father earns more than his children’s mother, he often can’t afford to take time off work as he has to financially support the family. 

The report also shows that gender stereotypes are alive and and well in many nation states. Drawing on data from 23 countries, significant proportions of men and women agreed that: “Changing diapers (nappies), giving baths to children and feeding children should be the mother’s / woman’s responsibility.”