I am an Old Hand Fossil than being TRENDY

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Be yourself, be relevant...

Improve yourself, but never change...

Be someone better, but remain yourself.

I do have flaws, actually a lot... I accept it... But I am not here to impress.


People try to fix me, mold me... but why you waste your time investing a lot to change me... ? 


How can I ever make you understand that I have evolved a lot from a  baby to a child, then to a teenager and even a girl to a lady and now to a mommy and even like a maid or nanny more often..

huh : almost a drastic change..isnt that enough ! still you people like aunties cousins or the near and dear ones stick to us strong to change our thoughts and rules.


Nobody is meant to poke on our  decissions and opinions. So please, give me my chance to lead this beautiful life that god has blessed me... He, the Almighty is meant to change us than more of you sick people...


PLEASE?


let me listen to my opinions and strategies...

let me take a break...

let me sigh peacefully...

Let me eat a lot and get that plumpy chin...

let me enjoy my clothes...

let me marry my kind of person...

Let me carry my kid when God wills...

Let me do my kind of job...

Let me enjoy not being in a profession...

Let me parent my kids my way...

Let me wean my babies my way...

Let me travel the world my way...

Let me live my relationship simple than making it complicated...

And many more in our life. Please envelope your "questions, advices, also opinions of what next.. when now.. and how did.. or do that and do this.. thats not ok " all this kinda statements..and post it to yourself than peeping into poor us lives.

Be your own kind of that odd soul or whatever like if its even, or arithmatically apart of neither even nor odd...

Do not ever provide the key to unlock your lives to these kind of sick people so that they flip it left and right by their questions to change our emotions, decissions and even our lifesteps leading to break us.. 



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